i needed a break
after that week of disasters, i decided to cancel any dates i had scheduled this week. i had a dinner date on thursday (today), and was supposed to see a movie on wednesday. i actually completely forgot about the movie date and unknowingly double booked and a dinner i had planned with some friends. of course my friends took priority. i wasn’t excited about either one of them anyway. they both seemed to have the same build - shortish, stocky. i emailed them both and asked if i could reschedule. i have not rescheduled yet. i am not sure if i’m going to.
within that week, i also decided to join eharmony. as much as i don’t want to pay for a service (again), i decided to join based on the success of three (at the time) friends who ended up in serious relationships as a result of it. another friend had been using it for a little over a month, and had really good dates with a guy too. since then, one of my friends (the guy), became single again, but had a month long relationship with a girl from there. anyway, the process seems slow but i like how they are the ones who send you matches, and you cannot search. so far, there is ONE guy on there who has made it through their bizzare 4 step process. our next step is to talk on the phone. not sure how that is going to go.
so now there are 2 guys on OKC who i have been emailing and have potential to meet. one of them i am more excited about than the other. the other does seem to have a stable, good job, so we will see.
we shall see, indeed.
